• jordanlund@lemmy.worldM
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      22 hours ago

      Banging a 17 year old in a state where the age of consent is 18 makes the argument irrelevant.

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            “Pedophilia” is a psychological term, not a legal one. Perhaps you are looking for “rape.”

            Treating “pedophile” as a synonym for “child molester” is like treating “schizophrenic” as a synonym for “axe murder”. Using psychological conditions as slurs and everyday metaphors is harmful.

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            Explain how I’m wrong? Or did you think banging a 17 year old is literally pedophilia?

            It’s annoying when right wing weirdos label everyone that disagrees with them a pedo, it’s not any less annoying when it’s done by everyone else.

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              Arguing that wanting to have sex with a minor is anything but is a take, and definitely has me glad Boost supports user tagging.

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              13 hours ago

              Do you often find yourself being labeled as a pedo? Might want to rethink some things then.

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                12 hours ago

                I was often finding myself beyond labeled as a pedo. On twitter. By maga morons that label everyone they disagree with a pedo.

                I did rethink some things and went to lemmy. I guess not much changes.

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                    12 hours ago

                    No one said everyone. I said maga weirdos that label everyone they disagree with as a pedo.

                    Welcome to that club, I guess.

    • Norah - She/They@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      23 hours ago

      Not even a crime in most states: https://www.jagranjosh.com/general-knowledge/age-of-consent-in-each-us-state-1701408847-1

      (This is coming from an Aussie where 16 is the AoC in all states. We have exceptions that make it 18 if the other party has a duty of care tho)

      Edit: I should add that it’s still fucking creepy and weird when an older man does this. Just, not pedophilia, and not by default (statutory) rape in most places. Unlike what the people in this thread seem to think.

      It’s almost like we shouldn’t water down such serious terms by lumping everything in with it.

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          Indeed they do. And since you seem to be under the impression that those definitions do not change, please define ‘silly’ for me as it was defined when it began to be used in late Middle English.

          I feel you’re being silly regardless of the early or current definition of the word, but I’m betting you also don’t use the word that way.

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              I believe I asked you for a definition first. I’m not sure why you expect me to do that when you won’t.

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                Because your request was rhetorical and his is not, having a concrete answer that is actually fucking relevant and essential to the discussion.