• violet08_@lemmy.worldOP
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    6 days ago

    but they let me put their cocks together to suck them at once😒

    is cocks touching less gay than kissing?

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      Among other things, you are there to ensure the heterosexuality of the event for them, so they can explore each other a little bit without fear of commiting. They sound like trad guys and trad guys are raised to think that sexual identity is all or nothing and that if they let in even a little bit of gay their entire identity will shatter. It’s sad that the culture does this to them - they do it to each other, really. Have patience. Let them go at their own pace. Exactly as you would with any partner, with any sexual experience.

      • LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        5 days ago

        Meh, I think some people just like what they like. I see nothing attractive about making out with another guy, it’s a hard turn off. Masculine faces just dont do it for me. No problem with dicks though. So if I was in a threesome I’d have no problem with going down on both men and women, but making out would be a no

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      6 days ago

      Yes. Ballsacks are ok too during a DP, but I’m not going to kiss the guy. That’s just weird.

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      6 days ago

      I’d call that “heteroflexible”. Straight, with no interest or even disinterest in direct MM stuff, but also not weirded out or taken out of the moment if there’s incidental, unfocused contact, because that will happen in a group setting no matter what

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    6 days ago

    That’s my partner. I mean, I’m fine with fooling around with another dude, so it’s no big deal. But boy, does she wants to see me either be the top or be the bottom. It’s like one of her biggest request besides pegging me.

  • outlawcarl@fedinsfw.app
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    6 days ago

    Silly geese, if there is a girl within 5 meters then anything goes, its like manakins or bonobos kiss your bro impress the girl.

    Also it is odd that it seems to many more socailly aceptable the other way round…