• violet08_@lemmy.worldOP
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    16 hours ago

    but they let me put their cocks together to suck them at once😒

    is cocks touching less gay than kissing?

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      22 minutes ago

      Among other things, you are there to ensure the heterosexuality of the event for them, so they can explore each other a little bit without fear of commiting. They sound like trad guys and trad guys are raised to think that sexual identity is all or nothing and that if they let in even a little bit of gay their entire identity will shatter. It’s sad that the culture does this to them - they do it to each other, really. Have patience. Let them go at their own pace. Exactly as you would with any partner, with any sexual experience.

    • Dr. Bob@lemmy.ca
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      15 hours ago

      Yes. Ballsacks are ok too during a DP, but I’m not going to kiss the guy. That’s just weird.