• spacegoat@lemmy.world
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    7 hours ago

    Discord is perhaps the most unnecessary and readily replaceable service and they don’t seem to realize how short their time is

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      7 hours ago

      It’s absolutely possible to build a discord replacement

      The real issue is convincing people to move

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        27 minutes ago

        This.

        A friend of mine went through the trouble of setting up a whole Matrix server with the Sable client when the first rumblings of this came up late last year.

        Everything was made and readily available for everyone one we knew to move over. They just had to make an account and that was it.

        Nobody came.

        Nobody fucking came.

        Its just me and two of my other friends on there, because despite everyone crying how Discord is doing something bad, when it comes to it they have nothing but excuses.

        “But all my friends are here…”

        “But there’s a videogame community I’m part of…”

        “I don’t understand. It’s too complicated…”

        “I’ll move if it really gets bad…”

        ICE in America is using AI profiling to get rid of or straight up murder peoole, trained on data which includes everything the age verification spyware in Discord sends directly to them. But they don’t care. Their convenience is lore important than the lives of people.

        So fuck them.

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        3 hours ago

        there already exist discord clones like fluxer and stoat, but not a lot of people are there yet

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          I run a trans discord server for an IRL group. We’ve looked at alternatives for obvious reasons, but we’re still on discord. All the alternatives we looked at come with some compromises. Often they lack some critical feature of discord. And while self hosting is great for an individual, it becomes a liability for a group as now that one individual has a great deal of responsibility and power over the rest of the group. And some alternatives are no where near as approachable as discord.

          None of these problems are insurmountable, but they’re also not something that is as easy to brush aside as a lot of tech enthusiasts claim. Our current stance in our group is that we’ll stick with discord for now. If they start flagging our channel as adult content and demand ID to access it, at that point we’ll select one of the alternatives. The drawbacks of the other platforms aren’t deal breakers for us. But at present the hassle of discord’s bullshit isn’t enough for us to overcome the hassle of the alternatives and the transition. We’re aware of alternatives and keeping them in our back pocket, but for now we’re sticking with discord.

        • Tattorack@lemmy.world
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          26 minutes ago

          I wouldn’t say Stoat. Too many missing features. Fluxer doesn’t have Federation or E2EE yet.

          Sable currently is the best drop-in replacement for Discord.

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        3 hours ago

        I even found a replacement called Fluxer that let’s you import your server and all their channels, plus the livestreams don’t run at 2fps like Matrix but my friends still are too lazy to move, it’s frustrating.

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          25 minutes ago

          Streaming over Matrix seems to work just fine with me and my friends. Might be the client we’re using, or the fact it’s a self-hosted server.

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          3 hours ago

          in the embedded jitsi based calls you can set the screen share fps in its own settings. if your server uses element call, I don’t think you need such a setting?

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      7 hours ago

      Is it though?

      I don’t mind making another account, but I’ll have a hard time convincing many of my friends.

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        33 minutes ago

        They managed to move to discord at one point, they can do it again

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      3 hours ago

      I’m so fucking tired of AI slop

      yesterday I even got google AI search summaries quoting Meta AI summaries of people’s public facebook comments

      like guys I just want to know the fucking difference between these two driveway sealer products, I don’t need a 1000 word AI generated food blog post on the incorrect reasons why sealing is important

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    Ha! Well, I’m glad we moved our gaming community off of it when all this kicked off first time round, knowing full well it wouldn’t be the last time they tried this shit. We started entirely self hosting our community to focus on user privacy and haven’t looked back since.

    If people want a link to join, comment or DM, I don’t want this to come across like a sales pitch or shill lol

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    13 hours ago

    The selfie method stands out: on-device processing with no video retained is a meaningful privacy distinction.

    Yea I don’t buy it

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    8 hours ago

    They moved my local D&D group onto discordia and ended up kicking me out of a session I wanted to attend.

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    12 hours ago

    I’m not verifying my old age with any online service. They can go fuck themselves.

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    Good thing Matrix and XMPP exist as alternatives.

    If I start getting straight-up locked out of Discord unless I show my face or ID, I’mma just stop using it full stop.

    I mean, shit, Discord’s already getting ridiculous with their Nitro ads. No, Discord, I don’t want Nitro, stop asking me. No needs to start meaning no again.

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    9 hours ago

    Good thing I made a Discord alternative that is using p2p and thus making it impossible to verify the age of any user.

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    All the bullshit aside.

    Why does any account that literally cannot be under 18 need to verify their age? On any service.

    If the minimum age to create account + account age is at least 18, they are an adult.

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      7 hours ago

      the discord minimum is 13, unless jurisdiction demands it to be higher (ie 16 in germany and australia)

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        Yeah so, if someone’s Discord account is 5 years old, they must be 18. Therefore they should be automatically verified.

        (Id verification should be abolished though, crazy we are letting this shit happen)

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    16 hours ago

    I’m over 400 years old and if you don’t believe me, I still use teamspeak.

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    13 hours ago

    Moved onto Matrix a while ago because of this. Gonna be real, Discord is better but all Matrix asked me for was hardware verification. I fucking hate this ID verification thing. Like we are going to see a sharp spark in identity theft going forward.

    …and shit, I might be part of it. I had to verify with an ID to get my CompTIA tests, which I passed. I am still arguing with Pearson to delete my personal data, but I might be in the shitter with all the others getting their identity stolen.

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    19 hours ago

    My friends and I are in Matrix with the Sable client since march and we are really happy with it.

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      14 hours ago

      Thanks for mentioning that client! Just gave it a go and its probably the best client I have tried so far

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      18 hours ago

      You self-host or use a public instance? I’ve been curious about Matrix for a while but never found the time to set it up or find a decent instance

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        I was using a etke as a hosting service for a while but it was a bit expensive and I wanted more control. I set it up on my homelab with a VPS running a reverse proxy and like it a lot more. I believe I deployed it with someone’s Ansable playbook I found on github. Make a matrix.org account and play around with it. I hate the Element client though.