Back when I was dating, my policy was to let any prospective love interest know the worst thing I know about myself as soon as expedient, but usually before courting. It worked, in that I got ghosted a lot of times, but usually at least promptly.

As with almost everything in life, the true way is the middle path. Reveal the weird systematically but toward the very beginning of the relationship.

Sounds like a quick way to find your people.