PhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 5 months agoWho's in the wrong here?lemmy.worldimagemessage-square19linkfedilinkarrow-up196arrow-down12
arrow-up194arrow-down1imageWho's in the wrong here?lemmy.worldPhenomenalPancake@lemmy.world to Lemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world · 5 months agomessage-square19linkfedilink
minus-squareAurenkin@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up7arrow-down3·5 months agoBoth half wrong imo. I’m relatively new to the whole dating and multi dating thing but what I’ve come up with is: Never ghost if you’ve made plans or texted a lot off app (so points to other person for actually cancelling) Don’t rub it in people’s face that you’re seeing other people but be honest if asked (negative points to other person) Accept rejection gracefully with no hard feelings. I got ghosted recently and struggled with this one but stayed strong. Any tips appreciated though because it can be tough out there.
minus-squareEarthman_Jim@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkarrow-up8·5 months agoI really don’t think teal did anything wrong, in fact I think it would have been wrong to keep it to themself. Too much shitty behavior going unchallenged in our world these days imo.
Both half wrong imo. I’m relatively new to the whole dating and multi dating thing but what I’ve come up with is:
Never ghost if you’ve made plans or texted a lot off app (so points to other person for actually cancelling)
Don’t rub it in people’s face that you’re seeing other people but be honest if asked (negative points to other person)
Accept rejection gracefully with no hard feelings. I got ghosted recently and struggled with this one but stayed strong.
Any tips appreciated though because it can be tough out there.
I really don’t think teal did anything wrong, in fact I think it would have been wrong to keep it to themself. Too much shitty behavior going unchallenged in our world these days imo.