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It’s almost like they are all human beings belonging to the same species
NYC, especially Queens and BK area is considered to be one of the most diverse area in the world. They actually picked Queens to study people’s DNA with volunteers.
I did like Trader Joe’s
Weird position for such a flammable warehouse to have.
It would be nice to just have a list of places that are good to shop at… You can only get so much from Costco
At least Aldi let’s it’s cashiers sit, which is something, but not sure anything beyond that
I’m pretty sure aldi and trader Joe’s are the same company
we have a store called winco that has a bulk section. they’re pretty decent. it’s regional. I also like HEB, but i don’t live where they are.
You forgot to mention that WinCo is also employee-owned!
Having both Winco and Costco nearby is pretty great
yeah, we have abundant shopping options.
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Reminder that Trader Joe’s has a buiness practice of stealing food designs from small businesses.
Theyre very much the 19th century Archeology of the grocery world.
Not just the recipe they will steal the name and branding as well and then taunt them with their big pockets and army of lawyers
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Am I crazy or can you not be a lesbian if you’re non-binary
It’s all made up and the points don’t matter.
whose meme is it anyway
Trader Joe’s marketing dept
You absolutely can be, and there is a rich history of gender diversity in lesbian spaces
That’s great but can you maybe explain in more detail for us dumdums?
Because, as far as I know, lesbian means “woman who loves women” and non-binary means “neither man nor woman”. So how can someone be a woman who loves women if they’re not a woman?
AFAB, nonbinary person who identities as non-binary because they are fluid. I.e. sometimes a woman, sometimes another gender. Dating a woman.
I guess if we’re getting technical, they’re only a lesbian sometimes. But we don’t have a term for truly NB dating a woman. And they don’t self identify as male so they’re not hetero. So lesbian it is.
See? Easy peasy.
But this is why I stopped trying to make logical sense of it. I don’t need to understand that level of detail about a stranger, and I dont care who they’re fuckin unless it’s me.
In a practical sense, identifying as lesbian makes it clear who they are interested in. Who they are should already be understood.
Honestly, non-binary hetero would be considerably more confusing. I at least know with a non-binary lesbian that they like women.
Non binary asexual would clear everything up for the “Don’t give a fuck” crowd
It’s best to identify as “lesbian” if it’s close to your situation, because there are a lot more brunches that way.
wait, the lesbians get more brunches than us bis? when did this happen
bi erasure, obviously
i just need to know if i need to pick up some gender fluid to get more brunch
All the labels are made up, there are no rules, and you might identify with multiple categories. I use the labels bisexual, pansexual, and lesbian interchangeably, because they have different connotations and familiarity to most people. Need to communicate that I’m with a woman? A lesbian relationship. Want to make it clear that I’m attracted to all sorts of gender identities? Bisexual/pansexual, depending on who I’m talking to and what terms their familiar with/how specific I feel like being.
The labels don’t have hard and fast rules. I’m attracted to women, I’m gay, I’m lesbian, I’m non-binary, etc. It doesn’t matter. They all apply to me and can overlap to varying degrees. I know a trans guy that calls himself both a gay man and a lesbian. I know trans women that refer to themselves as twinks. Specificity and semantics aren’t as important as communicating what you intend to whoever you’re talking to.
Gender and sexuality aren’t hardwired rules, but influenced by our culture and environment. This is true for everyone. This isn’t to say that someone’s gender or sexuality isn’t intrinsic to that person, but how they think about those and present them are part of an ongoing performance for themselves and others. If you’re interested in learning more on the subject, I can recommend some excellent books on the subject, or feel free to ask followup questions here or in DMs.
it means don’t fucking worry about it
unironically, just dont
it’s not that big of a deal, some people are just non binary lesbians and we don’t need to fuckin care
NB carries its own gender info, lesbian carries its own info on cultural, romantic, and sexual info. it’s fine and it fits. Being NB isnt a rule and ppl need to not worry so much about getting enby pronouns wrong or figuring out what’s inside the panties they’ll never be peelin.
it doesnt fuckin matter, it’s the gender of not giving a fuck. enby literally stands for “don’t worry about it buddy”
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Sponsered by Trader Joes
And somebody who hasn’t been to a grocery store in Los Angeles.
Or any other big city.
Tyoical New Yorker hubris.
Honestly, my thought was “that’s it?”
Where I live, which isn’t that big of a city we’ve got way more than 3 demographics.
Bro that caption is blocking the person’s entire face lol
Unless you’re part of their culture, Hasidic Jews are tough to get along with
I am kind of not big on communities like that (and Amish, as another example). You shouldn’t be able to just opt out of the social contract like that, and still benefit from the state’s largess. I believe the ultra orthodox in Israel are even exempt from the nation’s mandatory conscription.
Has nothing to do with religion or ideology, it’s more about fairness imo.
What contract are you talking about
sure as shit dont even try and talk to them if you’re a “small hole”
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it’s the Hebrew word for woman
MFers gentrified being an NB lesbian
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