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Cake day: June 9th, 2025

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  • I feel exactly the same way you do. It’s incredibly rare for me to find anyone I’d even consider dating. I’d rather just fuck and go. I’m upfront about what I want and try my best not to lead people on and for the most part it’s worked out well for me. But I’m gay and the beautiful thing about being gay is we’ve figured out we don’t have to conform to heterosexual relationship norms.

    I think in the straight community it’s a little more challenging, but not impossibleI think the important thing is so keep your integrity during the process. Respect the people you’re hooking up with, don’t lead them on, and cut them off when you see they might not be able to handle a hookup only situation. That last part sounds cruel but it’s in their best interest.






  • I had a similar experience. The more I learned about autism the more excited I became about finally having an answer to all the things that didn’t make sense the last 30+ years. After obsessing over articles and videos about how other people on the spectrum dealt with things like burnout and rage, I started to feel peace about who I was for the first time in my life. I went back and forth questioning whether or not I should get a formal diagnosis and ultimately made the decision not to for this one simple reason: It didn’t matter. If the “solutions” that worked for autistic people worked for me, then everything else was just semantics.

    If believing I was on the spectrum improved my quality of life, it didn’t matter whether it was true or not.








  • Thankfully someone I knew posted it on social media. Seems to be the only way information gets spread around now. Been trying to do the same. It’s by the same group that did the no kings protest and they have said they plan to continue planning protests so I would just follow that group for upcoming protests. I had googled “next no kings protest” after I heard about it and it popped up.