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  • What is there to explain? If you don’t add any savory ingredients to pasta it is not salty or savory in taste.

    Same as you can prepare rice savory or sweet as rice pudding or something.
    You do know “pasta” just means the noodle, right? It’s still pasta if you don’t add anything?
    There are lots of sweet pasta dishes in the world like sweet kugel or milk noodles.

    I just add (cold) applesauce onto (warm) noodles and eat it. If I’m fancy, I make applesauce from fresh apples.

    Also, look up portugese Aletria. That’s angle hair pasta as it’s best.




  • I don’t think its the same than combining a sweet fruit with tomato sauce and cheese.

    Pasta by itself is basically neutral in taste. You can easily make them into a sweet dish. I sometimes like to eat them with applesauce.

    Just to clarify, I wouldn’t order or make pizza with pineapple for myself, but I don’t think it’s that big of a deal people sometimes make it.
    Just eat what you like and don’t force your taste on others.



  • norimee@lemmy.worldtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.worldIs "retard" a slur?
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    It is always a slur, even directed to someone mentally healthy, because it reinforces ableist and hateful stereotypes.

    The same way calling men and boys female slurs like bitch or pussy is mysogonistic and puts women down.

    You don’t call a person a “retard” in a complimentary way. You compare them to a mentally disabled person to convey how dumb or stupid they are. Putting other people down at the same time.









  • I was just diagnosed a few moths ago in my 40’s and I do not grief the diagnosis itself. Its a relief in many ways.

    I feel like you with things I struggled all my life. There is a reason for these problems, a real neurological issue that i might be able to work on. Its not because I’m just a failure as a person.

    But I do grief a lot about the past and what could have been. All the times life was just so hard and painful.

    I have ADS with hypoactivity, which means that all the energy that make hyperactive kids unable to sit still all goes inwards into selfdoubt and insecurity.
    I was so, so suicidal and full of selfhate especially during my teens, but also in phases over the rest of my life. I knew there was something wrong with me and I felt so misunderstood and unloved most of all,i thought I didn’t to be loved and understood… and the thought that all this did not need to be that hard makes me cry almost every day.


  • I’m german and I absolutely disagree with these measures. It goes against all our Union within Europe stands for. We have to solve issues together not everyone on its own.

    If there is a problem, we have to strengthen the EU-outside borders not the one within.

    I would wish a better support and cooperation for countries with EU borders. The budget and people for strengthening german borders should go to an EU wide border cooperative that protects the EU outside borders together.