I’m sorry your partner isn’t super on board, I consider myself super lucky. She’s definitely confused but wants me to be me, happy and free. I really try and explain everything to her and I know its alot but she’s doing her best. This is what I have:

https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1

Also a chastity belt thay helps hold it high and tight really helps.

I’m not quite your size. 6’1" 185lbs but definitely more of a grower for sure. Going from like 2" to 6 or 7"? I don’t really measure it. It would be awesome to have a data base like that. I got a special body tape measure that’s been helping figure out my sizes but as all women lament there are vast inconsistencies in sizing.

I hope that helps, thanks for you input!

I will definitely look into it. It’s always better to have options. Thanks for the advice!

Thanks this is really helpful! It’s alot of information to take in but I feel like I have a better understanding of my body. I really appreciate it!

Out side of the described issues I honestly love it. I’m only on day two but it makes me feel way more feminine. I love not feeling stuff down there, the feeling of my thighs touching, of not having to constantly adjust. If you want to try it out it’s like a $60 investment i got this:

https://lockthecock.com/products/pink-plastic-cock-cage-1

Highly recommend getting a support belt too it helps keep it high and tight.

You do you girly!

Welcome to the family, we’re so happy you’re here! We all love and support you! I’m 36 so I know know how weird it is figuring this out late when the signs have always been there. Every little step you take is going to fill you with joy and reinforce what you know deep down. You are not alone. You got this!

♡♡♡Nissa♡♡♡

This is so wonderful, I can’t believe how quickly you were able to leave the house!!! I’m sorry the dysphoria is so strong when you’re required to boymode, I haven’t been able to girlmode all week. It’s bearable for me, visualization helps alot, I’m dying to get home, take a bath, shave my legs, and put on a skirt. You are an inspiration to us all, and I can’t wait to be able to girlmode around my friends and eventually in public.

Thank you for sharing!

That is really helpful thank you! Not gunna lie it’s alot, but it’s really good information and I really appreciate it! I feel like I already have a solid foundation on how to use breast forms, and knowing I can reach out really helps.

Sometimes simplest is best, I knew that was a thing but tv and movies told me that wouldn’t work. I was literally considering water balloons filled with pudding, as the 90s film ‘Now and Later’ advised me to. Thank you Nikki!

You go girl!

Super cute and comfy! You look fantastic! Make those numbers dance!

Ramble away I love it! I will definitely check out the local thrifts and see if my town has similar clothes swap! Thanks again, you are being super helpful

Wash them every day, got it! Thank you!

Interesting, now I regret telling my wife to throw out her old bras last month lol. Dunno if they would have worked but maybe I would have gotten lucky. Oh well

I will definitely look into ‘bra buds’ and will try and find a bra or bralette with an insert pocket. I have a little bit to work with but definitely need a bump up. Don’t worry about the tmi, that’s the kind of information I need. A foam cup inset sounds comfy for sure.

Thank you so much!

I’m totes going to try this!

LMFAO!!! I will definitely keep this in mind, I honestly don’t think I’ll be able to forget it!

This sounds like a great excuse to learn knitting, thanks for the tip!

Thank you! I’ll have to look at those as an option.

Yea, I’m not really looking to pass right now I just want the dress to be flattering and look right. I’ve had only a couple dresses earlier in life (which I sadly burned due to self doubt and an aggressive repression campaign) and one fit really well, while the other left something to be desired. Which really sucked, I loved the color and how the bottom half looked and flowed. The one I want now is just so lovely I can’t not buy it but definitely looks like it will desire something.

I will definitely shave with the grain and see how i like it before taking the plunge. Thank you for the tips, I really appreciate it!

This definitely helps! Thank you!