• serial_crusher@exploding-heads.com
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    1 year ago

    This is about confirmation bias more than anything. You’re upset about the woman that burned you, when there’s plenty of quality prospects out there that you’re overlooking. If this is happening to you frequently, you may be chasing “bad girls” yourself.

    • Wigglehard@exploding-heads.comOP
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      1 year ago

      I mean most men have been burned, im not feeling like ive been wronged tho, although i hold animosity towards my ex wife, im pretty much over it except the occasional moment im not but thats more loneliness than anything else

  • Alice@exploding-heads.comM
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    1 year ago

    Women desire having a guy in their life who is tough enough to face the world and punch back when necessary. Some women feel more protected by a tough guy. Nice guys don’t have a strong sense of self or boundaries. They are usually ppl pleasers and let others walk all over them

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      1 year ago

      But everyone seems to be people pleasers now. I think the most common word I hear these days is “sorry.” I fight back a bit, but i’m not exactly making ground.

      • Alice@exploding-heads.comM
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        1 year ago

        Yeah and that’s not a good thing in my opinion people need to stand up for themselves and speak their mind and not be afraid

  • CheesyGamerTater@exploding-heads.com
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    1 year ago

    Humans crave conflict. A guy simping around you all day is nice, but eventually tiresome as there’s no challenge. They’ll never respect a person like that no matter how much they sacrifice for them. So guys have to be assholes and uncooperative or risk being ignored. Same reason they pull girls hair on the playground.