• negativeyoda@lemmy.world
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          You joke, but I knew a woman who danced at a strip club to get extra money for herself and school supplies who got fired after a student’s dad saw her dancing

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              That’s the world we live in, and the only reason we’re seeing this story is because she was/is a teacher. The number of people affected by others’ vindictive smearing for similar but in less “shocking” circumstances would lend itself to a public outcry that could very well undermine the whole “moral” control this stems from.

              If you don’t realize you’re living in a seriously fucked dystopia already, you’re likely a white cis-het male in the middle class, all due respect. Take a look around, and breathe it in.

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      Sex work is work.

      Do you believe that every sort of work in the world should be 100% legal? All of it?

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          Well yes, that’s a different issue. It should be legalized and regulated as currently there are almost no legal protections for workers.

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        That’s not how logic or reasoning works. They said sex work is work, they said literally nothing else about any other kind of work.

        Come on dude, that’s like the most boring fallacy ever.

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          What’s the point of saying sex work is work, then? Obviously it is, but just saying something is work doesn’t somehow validate it.

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      Regardless of the fact that there’s no way many of her students will be mature enough to handle this information without being disruptive, there’s a difference between supporting life decisions and accepting them.

      Like the difference between fatphobia and supporting healthy lifestyles, right? One is cruelty, the other is not supporting bad habits.

      Same with prostitution, it’s one thing to not oppress sex workers, it’s another to tell kids to become sex workers. Hopefully she’s not doing that but is normalizing the profession really what you want around teenagers?

      No parent wants to find out their kid started turning tricks because Ms Smith seemed cool.

      Especially when her “Ways to Spot A Dangerous John” course wasn’t approved by the principal.

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        Why would you assume she was “promoting sex work” instead just teaching kids “normal” sex ed? That’s a very strong assumption, and the article says nothing about that. Do you have an alternative information source that says otherwise?

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          Her existence as a teacher is tacit approval of her side gig by the school. Her existence in the classroom promotes it as a viable career.

          There’s always a fine line to tread by institutions in charge of minors between trusting your kids to be mature enough to handle things like this and knowing how vulnerable they are to making poorly thought out decisions.

          I wouldn’t want a prostitute teaching classes on sex ed, and I wouldn’t want a drug dealer teaching chemistry, and just to be clear, I use drugs and have used prostitutes.

          I just didn’t do it and won’t support it around people whose brains are literally unfinished.

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            Her existence in the classroom promotes it as a viable career.

            Her need for a second source of income suggests teaching is not a viable career.

            If you really don’t want teachers doing sex work on the side, you could just pay them enough to not need a second job in the first place.

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            Her existence as a teacher is tacit approval of her side gig by the school. Her existence in the classroom promotes it as a viable career.

            Source?

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            Seems to be a viable career, if she can charge a $3000 cancellation fee…

            I love how you admit to “using” prostitutes, because you don’t seem to view them as human beings. Seems like what’s good for the gander isn’t good for the goose.

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              I don’t recall saying it doesn’t pay well.

              I also don’t recall anyone worth knowing saying that anything that pays well must be a social good.

              The objections to this comment are quite telling in their shallow understanding of… Everything, really.

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                Should things that are “social goods” pay living wage? Or should we expect people to forgo survivable wages in order to do good deeds? Most of the schools I’ve worked at have been hiring randoms with no qualifications because there’s not a lot of folks willing to work 80 hours a week for “maybe enough for one person to survive on if you’re never hoping to ever have a kid or home of your own.”

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            Her getting fired means she’ll likely have to rely more on her prostitution to survive. This means the school has now increased the amount of prostitution. How are the schools against it if that’s the case? Maybe the schools should increase teachers wages so that they don’t need to be a prostitute.

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            and I wouldn’t want a drug dealer teaching chemistry,

            Of course not. Why would you assume a salesperson be good at teaching manufacturing of what they sell?

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              Also, equating sex to drugs is pretty telling about how this person thinks.

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            Her existence as a teacher is tacit approval of her side gig by the school. Her existence in the classroom promotes it as a viable career.

            The logic of your argument follows that teaching as a career itself shouldn’t be presented as a viable career is it requires a second job to finance the career of teaching.

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        Especially when her “Ways to Spot A Dangerous John” course wasn’t approved by the principal.

        It’s always a sign that you have a great argument when you straight up make up facts.

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          Seriously. This is a human being we’re talking about, who’s now lost her livelihood, and will possibly need to resort to prostitution again to make a living because of it.

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            Sounds like she was escorting at the time which despite being prostitution in a trenchcoat it’s legal in Texas.

            Which is even more fucked because what she was doing was legal but still got fired.

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        You’re acting like she introduced herself to her students as a former prostitute. The kids never would have known if these asshole adults didn’t dig into her past like it mattered.

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        It is massively naive to think that zero of the people who are students right now will ever do sex work at some point in the future. Some of them definitely will. Even if you don’t agree that sex work is valid and honorable work (which you clearly don’t agree with) there’s no way to stop people from doing it despite how vilified or illegal it is in any society.

        Given that reality, a course teaching people how to avoid the dangerous elements of a job that some of those people will eventually do, sounds like a great course. Having a sex worker who knows WTF she’s talking about teach it? That’s fucking amazing.