To be clear: I prefer to pay for things instead of having to see ads but 13€ / month!? For a meta product that has inherently user-hostile design patterns even without ads?

Who does this appeal to?

  • jacktherippah@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    Just stop using Instagram. I quit mainstream social media (Facebook, Instagram, Reddit,…) and the experience has been quite cathartic.

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      I’ve been off of all social media for about a decade, but just yesterday i got a dm from someone from my past so i went and checked it out and then I checked a bunch of other stuff there too and my mental state instantly spiraled into a terrible place. Man that shit is toxic like nuclear waste.

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          It’s not talking to people that’s damaging. Being able to socialize and discuss via media is healthy.

          The damaging component is when an algorithm pushes unhealthy content because it drives engagement.

          No one set out to create a rage/depression/anxiety algorithm, but those emotions tend to drive engagement better than more positive experiences. So if engagement is the goal, you get destructive systems.

          Removing the algorithm does a lot for helping people engage with their peers and society at large in a more constructive context.

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          No it’s not. Social media is where you know who the other person is and/or they know who you are. This is an anonymous forum, not social media.

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            11 months ago

            Most definitions of social media are some form of “sharing content for the purpose of socializing in a public manner”. I wouldn’t think having a real life identity linked to your account would be a requirement for a social network. Why wouldn’t reddit, lemmy, or even an old school forum be considered social media? You’re sharing and discussing content on a community platform. I dunno, just something I’ve been thinking about recently as I’m using lemmy more.

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      11 months ago

      How many followers did you have and how many friends of yours were using the app, if you don’t mind sharing?

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        I had about 150 friends on Facebook when I quit. I’m quite recluse say so I didn’t really interact with them much.