• Vincent Adultman@lemmy.world
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      Take care of yourself my dude. Definitely not worth it, always reach for help and you’ll be surprised that people actually care! Also, therapy and probably meds, if you aren’t doing it already.

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        I’ve been on meds for decades my man. I’m currently going through something of a crisis: I kinda collapsed at work yesterday and walked out. Of a 8 yr "career’. Now I don’t just have my inner demons to contend with, but I also risk homelessness! Isn’t society grand?

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          If you collapsed probably there were lots of bad stuff accumulated over your working time, but yeah, I get that. I had a job that made me life miserable (billing department over phone), but I was afraid to quit because, you know, we have to sustain ourselves. Everything will be alright, but you’ll have to start looking for something soon, lol.

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    I mean they have to hit you with just the right amount of a lot of things to make you funny, but I’d put a lot of determiners far ahead of any possible correlation to trauma

    • critical/analytical thinking
    • a personality that sees ‘attention’ as a reward
    • strong social drive and desire to please others
    • communication skills

    To be more ‘funny’ than ‘suicidal,’ wouldn’t the right amount of trauma always be as little trauma as possible?

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      Valid point. But, there are many reasons people are funny and like funny things. Sometimes I get the feel that I am laughing at something just to forget the harshness in life. Bo Burnham in “What’s Funny” explains it better:

      "Humor is often linked to shared experience

      Like, a guy gets up and says

      “Have you noticed that public restrooms have really inefficient hand-dryers?”

      Oh, my god! Yes, I have!

      Ha-ha-ha, really good point

      They should fix that…

      It’s good to know that somebody finally gets me

      Because my wife divorced me, which subconsciously forced me

      To lose all sense of self

      So, it’s nice to think about hand-dryers and not that cheating whore"