Miisha, honey, you are loved and valid and absolutely 100% a woman. And I’ve heard you say so many times that you’re ugly, and you very much are not! There is no such thing as too late to start HRT, and that new psychiatrist sounds awful. I’m glad you’re alive and here, and I hope you stick around ❤️

Luckily it’s not too hard to switch care providers. I don’t think you should stay with this one, what an awful person. Fuck that unprofessional behavior.

Never apologize for being alive. We’re glad you’re still here. You are a beautiful woman ❤️

missed u Miisha… I know I’m still relatively new to all this as well but I still wanna give u a hug ❤️

Girl, don’t delete the damned account! (Oh, nvrmnd, too late. But at least you replaced it with Miisha). We’re just getting to know you! And you are loveable as fuck. You are being yourself and sharing the real you. It’s amazing and wonderful. Don’t toss that aside. The world needs that in it. We need you in it.

Your apologies are to no one, because they aren’t needed by anyone. We just want you to stay here and become the woman you don’t realize you can be. There are countless stories of trans women becoming the women they want to be after years of being sure they could never achieve that. That’s a thing. You are in it and you will have that story to help others with when you become the woman you want to be. You just don’t believe it yet, and that’s the most important part of the story. So good. I’m glad you don’t believe it yet. That will make your story even more helpful to the people who need to hear it in the future.

Stay here and be amazing. Right now that just means being your authentic self. You need to be nice to yourself, and give yourself time and space to grow. It was tough growing up once. Now you get to do it again, so let’s actually make it fun this time. It’s possible. I promise.

Also, get a new therapist. This one sounds dumb as fuck. I just want to sit around and talk shit about them with future you.

The world is filled with terrible people. You ain’t one of 'em. Your existence dilutes the asshole ratio and therefore improves the lives of everyone around you. Depression makes that very hard to see. Let’s address this depression by finding the right therapist. You might have to go to a dozen of them to find the perfect one for you. But that will be the most important shopping you ever do in your life. Totally worth it!

Ok, now take two shrooms and call me in the morning.

I am not trans. I have no trans friends. I am a male in Australia who is nearing 40 years old.

For what little my viewpoint carries in this sub, please know that I’m glad you’re still here.

You deserve love, happiness, acceptance and kindness just like anyone else. Please try to see the good in yourself. You are more than just your gender and your body. There are beautiful things about you, whether you’re hairy and masculine or tiny and feminine, or anywhere between.

Look for the good parts of you. The parts that are YOU at your core, regardless of genetals and genders. You are worth having around, whether your mind and body match fully, or not.

You are loved, you are valid, and I know that you are beautiful, gorgeous and worthy!

Girl listen to this 54 year old telling you that no one ever starts transitioning too late. If it makes you happy, don’t look back.

It took me decades to get over my self hatred. But it doesn’t need to take you that long and honey you are doing amazing and you are stronger than you realize. It takes huge guts to come back and be here. Do not be ashamed. You are a badass.

That psychiatrist sounds like a fucking idiot. Fucking yikes. You are not a bad person but you need a better therapist. Keep working on it, mental health can take a long time to smooth out but you can do it. If I can do it, you can do it. 💜

love, please allow us to be present for you. i don’t want you gone anywhere, even if it’s not up to me to decide (your choice).

you will always be :

• a woman
• a woman
• a goddam beautiful woman
• valid
• loved
• heard
• expected here

you are a wonderful person and i am utterly shocked and angry beyond sanity for what the psychatrist dared to told you !

i am tempted to ask for name and shame the fucker here, but itd be better to tell to a local group nearby your location so that she cannot harm anyone ever again.

i’m very relieved you’re still here! nobody here think you’re a bad person, on the contrary - there are a lot of us here who love and want to support you. please keep bothering us :3

also, sincerely, fuck that therapist, and not in a good way. nobody deserves to be treated like that.

I’m glad you’re still here ❤️

Omg jfc i was so worried about you, please take care of yourself sister, i love you. I cant stand thinking about the worst happening. I dont want to see you go ❤️❤️❤️

Edit: wish i could hug you until all the pain goes away, hoping that through the internet is enough ❤️

🫂 We’re glad you’re still here

Does it matter if you’re “a good person”? Lots of folks here like you, you’re nice to have around, and we’re glad you’re still here. I think that’s what really matters.

So I’m completely out of the loop here, but why would you not be a good person? You were dealt a shitty hand, but that does not make you a bad person.