This is exactly why I want to get married. I mean like I have feelings around marriage due to my parents divorce (as well as my mum’s divorce with my ex-stepdad), and while de facto is great it doesn’t take into account medical or legal things, as well as de facto only means couples who are living together. My partner and I have been together for almost 10 years and we haven’t lived together yet, so because of that we’re not considered de facto. Thus, when it comes to medical stuff, my mum and dad has say over things related to me, and my partner’s mum has say over things related to them. It just feels like such a slap in the face.
This is exactly why I want to get married. I mean like I have feelings around marriage due to my parents divorce (as well as my mum’s divorce with my ex-stepdad), and while de facto is great it doesn’t take into account medical or legal things, as well as de facto only means couples who are living together. My partner and I have been together for almost 10 years and we haven’t lived together yet, so because of that we’re not considered de facto. Thus, when it comes to medical stuff, my mum and dad has say over things related to me, and my partner’s mum has say over things related to them. It just feels like such a slap in the face.