• peopleproblems@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    I used to think this. Then I went on some dates, I made connections, etc.

    But only once I started paying. The apps are built to maximize profit.

    Hinge > Boo > Tinder > Bumble.

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        8 months ago

        Yeah and they all suck as a result.

        I keep meaning to have a proper look into it and see if there are any actual dating site / apps that are independent. It’s a massive pain because usually you can’t really tell if an app is going to be any good or if it’s just another clone until after you’ve already signed up. It’s quite the time investment.

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          8 months ago

          Yea most of them suck

          I tried Lovetastic and liked the fact that they don’t use pictures and it’s mostly based on text

          They don’t seem to have advanced algorithms that are here to fuck you

          But hey, I met my SO on a relatively niche but non ethical dating app. It was filed with ads and badly optimized but I figured out the algorithm wouldn’t be all ELO type of shit, and it worked after some time