I work in a strip club as a dancer. Happy to answer any questions

  • I'm_All_NEET:3@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    I’m a bit late but screw it…

    What type of music is most commonly played? I’ve been to a few in the past and it’s usually trap music.

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      1 year ago

      Trap and hip hop. I worked at a club that was way more country for a little while tho so just depends

  • Justathroughdaway@lemmy.worldBanned from community
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    1 year ago

    . Did it take any getting used to?

    . What are some industry secrets?

    . What type of person do strip clubs attract?

    . I heard strip clubs can be pretty shady. Can you confirm?

    . Where you invested in being an entertainer before this?

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      At first yeah but that was when I was just a waitress. By the time I started dancing I was pretty comfortable

      I dont know any real secrets

      All kinds of people

      Some of them are very shady

      And no I didnt know what I wanted to do before this

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        1 year ago

        How long do you plan on doing this? Is it a long term plan or a temporary thing? Most the strippers I’ve known have done it as a temporary side gig for some extra money. Isn’t that what most strippers do? I can’t imagine a 50 year old wrinkly woman being a stripper.

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          For most its just a temporary thing yeah. But ive been dancing for like 6 years now and dont plan on stopping super soon. You can only do it for so long before your old but its not like I have an end date in mind right now

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          Thanks for the response. This thread was very interesting to read as I’m in a similar field. I’m not a stripper but I am a dancer/actress. Although I have noticed that being a dancer does overlap sometimes. Other dancers and some of my friends have been strippers at one point. Some still are. I guess they do require the same amount of showmanship and athleticism.

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    1 year ago

    Thanks for doing this AMA!

    1. How did you get your dancing to professional standard?
    2. How do you stay safe at work?
    3. How many amazing stripper shoes do you own? I’ve always loved them but absolutely can’t walk in heels.
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      1 year ago

      It looks good in the lights. I dont know why we still do it we all hate having it stuck on us for days lol

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      1 year ago

      I do like my job. Theres good and bad to every job of course but this has been mostly good for me. And if I could do anything I guess working with animals somehow

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    1 year ago

    Probably a dumb question given your username, but just to clarify:

    Do you or do you not have moves like Jagger?

    • CrystalJagger@lemm.eeOP
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      Not uncommon but places I’ve worked extras are kinda left up to the dancers to decide for themselves if they give them. And some girls do meet up with customers after to escort

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      1 year ago

      Nothing just super dangerous. A couple guys saying creepy thing or getting handsy but security is good at kicking them out

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      1 year ago

      I started in 2019. So there was a year there where I wasnt dancing when everywhere was closed. But then when I came back there were rules for a little while about touching and distance and masks but then those went away. And sometimes there are slower seasons so maybe that had to do with the economy but never to the point of thinking I need to do something else

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    1 year ago

    Jesus. Titty. Fuckin. Christ.

    Seriously? Am I gonna have to do it?

    Fine…FML…take one for the team…


    What’s your favourite dinosaur 🦕🦖?

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      Sorry didnt get notified for this for some reson. Black opium is like the best work perfume ever. Pink sugar is great. Pretty much anything from the Britney Spears or Ariana grande brands to