We spend our days bound by endless obligations. Yet, even with loneliness, failed relationships, and soul-draining work, people still manage to catch a glimpse of happiness. Why?

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    4 days ago

    Paraphrasing something I read somewhere “Do we open a book just to close it again?” That for me, it means that it is not merely for doing something that we exist, but to tell stories, to pass on knowledge, to keep rituals alive, to be a vessel for something beyond ourselves. The important part, same as books, is to tell stories. Everything sparks from there.

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    6 days ago

    Well, things do happen after you die, just not to you.

    Compassion for those who come after us is one possible source of meaning.

    One could also consider that having no afterlife makes this life more meaningful than it would be compared to an infinity.

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    4 days ago

    Something doesn’t have to exist forever to have meaning, that seems like a holdover from utopic afterlife religious indoctrination.

    We can enjoy a movie or a lunch knowing it will end, I can pursue meaning and find multiple purposes throughout a lifetime.

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    Well, that’s kinda the point.

    If you assume that all we get is what we have while we’re alive, then that life becomes the point

    A lot of people that reach the conclusions you have, opt out. They move into a commune, they go vagabond, they may choose to just flit between jobs and find whatever fun is in them.

    Or, they may decide to become focused on finding purpose within the world that is, the societal structures as they exist. Some of those devote themselves to service, or find jobs that they believe make life better for others.

    Some stay in the framework of things, but do the bare minimum and focus on their off time their purpose.

    The point of it, from that point of view where this is all we get, is to find what makes staying alive worth it.

    It isn’t like the certainty of no afterlife removes your ability to live and love and do good things. It can make it harder to bear the bad things of life as well, but that’s anything really.

    The point is what you decide it is.

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    5 days ago

    There’s no point, and that’s beautiful. Go live your life the way you want to — nothing will happen after you die

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    The point is whatever we choose for ourselves. Just because we eventually die doesn’t mean living isn’t worth it. I don’t care that one day I’ll eventually die, I enjoy living now.

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    I like laughing and having sex (which I definitely have a lot of all the time I swear)

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    There’s no meaning, no purpose. We’re random life on a random planet. Try to have a happy life and try not to inhibit the happiness of others. That’s it.

  • If nothing we do matters, the only thing that matters is what we do.

    Life sucks, the world is a bad place. Leave it just a little bit better than you found it and you’ve lived life’s purpose in my book. We are generational garbage collectors, picking up the pieces of societal trash our forebearers left behind. So do your part. Pick up the trash. Leave the world just a little bit better than you found it.

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      Genuinely thanks for that first line. I’ve held that idea for a long time without the correct words for it to explain how I feel to other people.

      I feel like it also compliments the philosophy of “why not?” As in, “if nothing we do matters, why not be kind? Why not love people? Why not help people present and future?” If good and evil are equal utility, why not be a good person?

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    Enjoy the ride.

    There is no point. The point is that you experienced life at all, the most rarest thing in this universe perhaps. Most people don’t even stop to think how amazing that is. Going outside and smelling fresh air, drinking water, laughing, crying.

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    6 days ago

    life’s like minecraft. you set your own goals and then you pursue them.

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    But you are here now, so live a good life and enjoy it while you can. Maybe try to help others do the same. This is all we get, so use it to the fullest.

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      This. “It is a cheap generosity that promises the future as compensation for the present.”