• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
    11·
    24 hours ago

    It won’t drive me to the right exactly,

    I get the feeling that you’re already there, you just prefer a different aesthetic from the red hats.

          • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
            1·
            22 hours ago

            Usually when it’s pointed out to me that I’m reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

              • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
                1·
                22 hours ago

                Commits seppuku like a REAL leftist would be required to do.

                You could just not be weird about taking criticism from marginalized people, I think that’s the ask.

                pretending to not understand common expressions

                I’m actually not great with English idioms (ESL girlie), could you explain what this meant for me?

                  • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
                    11·
                    21 hours ago

                    “Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

                    why would you immediately assume you understand its usage in every case?

                    so why is sucking dick a thing requiring a secret relationship?

                    also it seems like a specifically gendered expression, why wouldn’t you say “eating Russian pussy” if you wanted to imply that there’s some relationship

                    It just scans as homophobic, just as calling trump/elon women as an insult reads as misogynistic.