• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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          1 day ago

          Usually when it’s pointed out to me that I’m reacting defensively I take a moment to think about why that is, maybe you should do the same.

            • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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              24 hours ago

              Commits seppuku like a REAL leftist would be required to do.

              You could just not be weird about taking criticism from marginalized people, I think that’s the ask.

              pretending to not understand common expressions

              I’m actually not great with English idioms (ESL girlie), could you explain what this meant for me?

                • Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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                  23 hours ago

                  “Sucking someone’s dick” is often used as a way to refer to someone sucking up to someone else in a way that isn’t explicable unless there were a secret relationship

                  why would you immediately assume you understand its usage in every case?

                  so why is sucking dick a thing requiring a secret relationship?

                  also it seems like a specifically gendered expression, why wouldn’t you say “eating Russian pussy” if you wanted to imply that there’s some relationship

                  It just scans as homophobic, just as calling trump/elon women as an insult reads as misogynistic.