“Women are soulless creatures who only want men for money and are incapable of caring for others.” -You

Holy shit, you all were crying and downvoting en masse because “we are treating all men the same”.

What the fuck is this?

Women aren’t capable of caring for and making their partners safe and appreciated??

Wow. Wow wow wow.

Women bad because she won’t give me sex boo hoo

Nah I divorced a man like you guys in here who didn’t feel the need to lift a finger after coming home from work. Or worse - not do much and still complain about doing everything while trying to get your dick wet between the baby crying.

It’s totally crazy how women need time to heal after birth, right guys? Huh huh huh but she won’t fuck me QQ

You’ve completely misunderstood my intent.

I would never advocate withholding sex as punishment. Resentment because of unequal work loads leading to loss of libido is different.

Men who think that they don’t have to do any chores or childcare after they’re done at work are the ones who should be putting in effort after they are getting home. Not because that’s how they earn sex, but because they are fathers and husbands.

A lot of grandparents still work these days as well, further limiting their ability to help with childcare.

We’ve got men in here confused as to why women get more time off after giving birth.

When the working parent is at work, sure.

As soon as the working parent is home, everything should be split 50/50.

The fault isn’t with desiring intimacy. Do you think women never desire intimacy? Do you think married women who have brought life into the world never want intimacy?

Men also can’t expect their wives to be open and available for sex if there isn’t a certain level of respect. Not being involved with child rearing and the house is showing his wife that he doesn’t care to help. That he doesn’t care enough about HER to be willing to help. THAT is usually a key part in not feeling loved and in turn killing the intimacy.

Oh no you put the “nice” coins into your wife and she didn’t give you sex like a vending machine??

It’s really gross in here.

Is it so shocking that there are many different reasons that a woman may not want sex as often after having a baby?

Men in here acting like women are punishing them by withholding sex ffs.

Hm I wonder why the people giving birth get so much more time off.

Certainly has absolutely nothing to do with healing, I’m sure.

There’s still a huge gap. Men do more, but still not as much as women.

Consider that you’re coming into a discussion a few days late.

Also consider that there are there other commenters that agree with me.

There are absolutely gender issues tied up with the Epstein case and to pretend like there are none is laughable. There’s many things that can be true at once.

As if rich people in other countries aren’t similarly insulated. Look at Andrew.

The guy who lost his job in the Coldplay cheating scandal was the CEO. He carried more blame for inappropriate behavior at work because he was in a position of higher power. Also the HR woman did lose that job.

I’m not sure it should be seen as a benefit for women to potentially have more fame because their nudes leaked and men enjoyed it. An outlier is not a rule made and most women would be horrified to have their sex tapes leaked as revenge porn.

No one is saying every single inequality boils down to “gender shit”.

Do you think labia have no nerve endings?

It hurts to sit on your genitals. No matter what type you have.

It’s not just because you disagreed with me.

It’s because you saw a woman getting upset at a man’s aggressiveness and you decided to pile on the woman to tell her to stop being upset. You said so yourself.

Whether you recognize why you did so doesn’t matter to me. As an outspoken woman, I’ve encountered enough men that do this to know your motivations, subconscious or not.

I never said they did?

We’re talking about how language is used and weaponized depending on different scenarios.

Women are bossy, men are strong leaders.