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  • Okay, cool ☺️ I see there are some more on here now, but I’ll give you a few of mine.

    TL; DR: The Hellraiser movies scared the piss out of me as a kid, but my curiosity to know more got the better of me, and I ended up really liking it down the road.

    I’m a horror fan, but some genres shake me too much. Body horror is one of them, but I knew there were some classics in the category that I was missing. So I gave Hellraiser a shot.

    I couldn’t stomach it at first. The opening scene horrified me.

    Spoiler

    Being ripped apart by hooks was the most visceral experience I had ever seen on-screen at the time.

    But, it stayed with me. I thought about the movie more and got curious enough to continue it. My disgust was overtaken by my desire to know more of the story.

    I ended up finishing the movie and came away with an interesting thought: yeah, it’s body horror, but it’s also cosmic horror. One of the tropes of cosmic horror is that the entity is beyond our understanding. What was clever about Clive Barker’s story was that it gave you a closer look at what it could be like to experience the unknown at a physical level. It was Lovecraftian, but not in concept. Barker gave it shape.

    I ended up binging the original films, reading the books, and watching the reboot. It was off-putting on a physical level, but the execution, the details, the artistry of the stories really impressed me.




  • I don’t know how good of advice this is, but I’ll share what I’m doing.

    I believe in “don’t be scared; be prepared” and “I’m not paranoid; I’m ahead of the curve.”

    TL; DR: make a hobby out of your fear.

    Basically, there’s some comfort in learning about how to secure your well-being, whether it’s by having safe places to turn to, learning how to protect your home and family, securing your tech from spying, having a “kill switch” for your phone, etc. (like GrapheneOS’s duress pin).

    Join like-minded communities. Do things that give you back peace of mind.

    Edit: I don’t mean to make it an obsession, though; I’m saying that you can turn what frightens you into your motivation to seek positive outcomes.

    Your feelings of dread are legitimate, but they should pick you up, not push you down.














  • Out of those two, I would go with Navidrome. Jellyfin is more monolithic of an app, and navidrome (more specifically, subsonic clients) is more Unix-like (or modular). You can’t edit the tags as easily as with Jellyfin, but beets works really well for tagging and embedding everything from album art to synced lyrics. Beets has great plugins to do all this, including a web app plugin and an auto update plugin.

    Edit: I forgot to mention all the frontend choices. Many frontends work for both apps, but I believe subsonic clients have more options.