Do armored pre-terminated fiber allow grounding provisions? The ones I’ve seen have the armor encased in a jacket. For the home I would prefer and ran pre-terminated.
https://www.commscope.com/globalassets/digizuite/182376-p360-ukgmpmpdf-comprehensiveexternal.pdf
Check out https://forums.servethehome.com/index.php?threads/sfp-cards-with-aspm-support.36817/page-2 to find out how to enable ASPM on ConnectX-3s.
powertop shows the card reaches C6 in my Z620 running Proxmox.