Teagan

I understand your pain. Laser is the way. Check Groupon. You’ll realistically probably need ~10 sessions of laser if you’ve got lighter skin and dark hair (which laser works best on). Afterwards, go for electrolysis to touch up and make permanent… Idk much on that part yet though as I’m not yet there myself. Itll take a few sessions to start noticing much… And it will be very painful… But totally worth it IMO. One session every 5 or so weeks is the way.

Thanks Miish, this is actually gonna be pretty helpful! <3

P.S. aftershave recs?

Hottie aleeerrrrrt!!

I should adopt this… Maybe I can have an ASS 😤

Real 😭

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Oh, I know, unfortunately. I’ve got friends who went through some insanely mysoginistic religious nonsense themselves that I’m glad are alive. I’m super lucky in this regard.

Still… I guess just holding out hope.

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Your dad shouldn’t be a pastor spreading such controlling hatred. My grandpa went to his pastor when I came out, and thankfully his pastor actually follows their own damn religion and taught love and acceptance. What ever happened to “love thy neighbor”, anything about loving " sinners" for otherwise you are one yourself, or just… Supporting people? You’re not doing them or anyone any harm. I really hope your dad can be excommunicated for this… I don’t know much about religion though… Beyond the intense amount of bloodshed and hate its historically caused.

Girlie, they can’t take who or what you are away from you. I’d take the advice of other commenters here… Low contact at most until they’ve taken the sticks out of their asses.

Yaaay! :D ❤❤❤

You’re a cutie Tanis! And a fantastic photographer too!

I hope when my parents move to Oregon sometime within the next year that I may be able to meet up for a photography trip when I inevitably visit 🥺

Omg for me it was arm hair, and then leg hair. Twinsiiiiies

POISITIVITY (totally not) JESSICA

Top 5 Yuri manga… I need it

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Hey… I’m much younger than you but I’ve gone through something similar… Reaaaally bad ex that never ever followed through and took to blaming me for everything. I never wished harm on her… Never even blamed her for anything until sometime after she broke up with me over my “pushing” (trying to get her to stop being an ass to others and especially myself… In most cases… In my case). I get it. All I can really say… Is that shit sucks girl, and it’ll take some time to feel okay. Be careful not to rebound, but also make sure you have someone you love and trust to be there for you emotionally and get you through it. You can make it through this, I’m sure… You’ve clearly made it through a lot already. <3

Hey! You’re very very pretty, I honestly doubt it has to do anything with your appearance girl. But I get it. It was especially bad for me until I started asking what the main things that trigger certain cis friends who are supportive into a gut reaction are.

For me it was how my hair was to start, along with a 5 o clock shadow I’m cursed with but slowly gets better with laser. Those two things were the biggest things… Next to my struggle to come to a new name.

My deadname is one that, while technically now being used for little girls, is not traditionally used for women and most people do not recognize (well… register may be a better term here) it in their head as such. Changing that has helped lots, even though I changed it to something more feminine-leaning neutral as I was identifying NB at the time.

Nowadays, along with HRT slowly but surely doing its work, the big tell I’m told about is my voice.

Personally I think I also struggle with a box-y frame skeletally… But I’m usually assured on that. Tbh I think there’s a chance I just wanna be cute and don’t know if I’ll ever be able to achieve that because of this…

I hope this helps you at all girl <3

I would not define people who do this and who you yourself describe as having “too few issues to _” as mentally healthy generally.

Unfortunately, being trans is just that… Being trans. Mean, complacent, or even generally willfully ignorant people are a different thing that can coexist with being trans. Essentially, not all trans people are nice… I unfortunately know a few very unsympathetic transfems I once felt very close to myself…

Matrix FOR SURE, girlie.

Sometimes the blahaj.zone instance is down, but the other comment is lowkey kiiinda exagerating. Been on it daily the last several months, and there’s only been about a week of downtime.

I think it’s linked on the blahaj.zone community here? Someone can correct me if I’m wrong, I’m a bit unavailable for searching that deep rn. But fr! Join us!

IM 23 MIISH 😭

I swear, you’re about to get me on nodded Celeste… ;-;

I need to listen to more Lena for sure. Haven’t heard that one.