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Its never to early to read The Hobbit to get someone a lifelong addiction to the LoTR. I was trying for in-utero but my wife was not interested.
dumples@midwest.socialto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•How do I get rid of my verbal humilation and degradation kinkEnglish7·8 天前If you are kinky and are feeling bad about I would highly recommend you start listening and reading to my boy Dan Savage America’s longest running sex-advice columnist. Hearing and understanding other people’s kinks will put your own into perspective and you will understand that the only thing typical about human sexuality is how atypical it is. Almost everyone has at least 1 “non-normative sexual desires” so keep that it mind.
How do you get rid of kink? You don’t. You can’t. You can try but it will always come back. So you will need to understand this about yourself and accept it. Sexuality has been keep our species alive and fucking since before we were Homo sapiens. You can’t fight it.
There is a potential to pivot a kink if you understand what it is about the kink that turns you on. If you are interested in humilating and degrading the root of this may just be a power exchange. Power exchange is pretty typical and almost all kinks have an aspect of that which may fulfill that itch for in person sex. You also can keep a kink to yourself even in a relationships. So you might be “out” about being into a submissive role but not share you are in degradation with your partner.
If you are interested in learning more I would recommend you read The New Bottoming Book and the The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy. (Note the cover change in these pdfs). They will really open your eyes about how kinks are not some curse but a fun quirk of your sexuality’s that gives your partners something fun to play with. Congratulations have Fun.
dumples@midwest.socialto Games@lemmy.world•Top D&D designers join Critical Role after quitting Wizards of the CoastEnglish1·13 天前That would be fun. Every game would just be a series of different fetch quests with a rotated list of the same enemies. Like a MMRPG but worse and more expensive
dumples@midwest.socialto Games@lemmy.world•Top D&D designers join Critical Role after quitting Wizards of the CoastEnglish2·13 天前ChatGPT give some pretty generic DnD advice. I can’t wait until they make a terrible automated DM. I can’t wait to play the most generic DnD of all time.
dumples@midwest.socialto Games@lemmy.world•Top D&D designers join Critical Role after quitting Wizards of the CoastEnglish1·13 天前I like the changes with weapons properties and I like some of the updates with various classes for some improvements to the weaker subclasses and feats. I overall enjoyed the majority of the changes.
However, from what I have heard and seen I did not enjoy the changes to the Monster Manual and statblocks.
dumples@midwest.socialto Games@lemmy.world•Top D&D designers join Critical Role after quitting Wizards of the CoastEnglish2·14 天前Gross. I was really excited for 5.5 for a while but don’t really want to get it anymore. I liked the PHB class upgrades when I read it but don’t own anything from it yet
dumples@midwest.socialto Games@lemmy.world•Top D&D designers join Critical Role after quitting Wizards of the CoastEnglish171·14 天前I love Christ Perkin and Jeremy Crawford. Who is even running D&D now? They are literally the only people I knew still on the project. They are both great. Were they forced out of WoTC?
dumples@midwest.socialto Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What game changing item*s can you buy for $100 or less?English1·15 天前Do you have a good brand recommendation? Or something to look for? My wife always complains about how tub being too small and she is tiny compared to me. I can never fit
dumples@midwest.socialOPtoMinnesota@midwest.social•Minnesota House DFL leader Melissa Hortman, husband killed in apparent 'politically motivated' shooting; second lawmaker woundedEnglish10·17 天前I have no words. Just thought everyone should know
dumples@midwest.socialOPto Minneapolis - St. Paul Metro@midwest.social•Minnesota House DFL leader Melissa Hortman, husband killed in apparent 'politically motivated' shooting; second lawmaker woundedEnglish9·17 天前I have no words. Just thought everyone should know
dumples@midwest.socialto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What's up with media mentions of Period Trackers so much, do women need a special calendar or something to actually know when thats going to happen and plan around it?English26·20 天前Also to note that some female athletes have started to try to get their big events to happen follicular phase of their cycle. During this time they are stronger, faster and better than other parts of their cycles. Its all based on their hormone. I was chatting with some crazy distance runners who were trying to only schedule their big marathons / ultra marathons during their follicular phase only. They also try to get their distance runs and recovery days synced with their cycles. You really need an app for that.
dumples@midwest.socialto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•how can I stop spiralling about my breakup?English3·22 天前I feel like a the rhythm of walking helps to moderate my thinking too.
This is actual scientific fact. Walking is a great way to do bilateral stimulation which calms the body. It activated the vagus nerve and the and the parasympathetic nervous system. Not even counting the calming effect nature and being around a community does for you
And that brick was thrown by a trans woman. That’s a definitely fact for sure
dumples@midwest.socialto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•All this AI nonsense is an attempt to capitalize on the mere act of human thinkingEnglish1·23 天前Rent the Skill for sure. If this is the skill you are expected to be an expert or at least experienced you would avoid it as much as possible to avoid being dependent.
Look delicious
My daughter is also due in September. I know that its just the voice for the first few months. So I got to practice my reading outload. My wife says I rush when reading to her belly. In my defense Heading Home with Your Newborn is important but not the easiest to talk through