Why not setup a Dynamic DNS at the site that has a dynamic IP do that you can always be sue that you have the most up to date, correct IP? WireGuard does support dynamic IPs, I use it my self when setting the ‘endpoint’ option client-side.

Block cookies on the qbitorrent site via your browser?

Regarding downloading from other people’s libraries, I believe they need to allow you to do so. I have a library that was shared with me, but I can’t download anything from them, although I can save it “offline” via the Plex app. The unfortunate thing is that the offline function doesn’t not work very well at all, it works about 20% of the time for me on iOS and Android.

Can you just read local epub files using the books app?

Sync on android and Apollo on iOS, both were sublime in their own way.

Currently using Memmy on iOS for lemmy, but I have about a dozen other apps installed since I’ve been trying all of them

The left sidebar with all your subscriptions is 👌

Yea, but then all your i’s would be t’s and your t’s would be i’s. Unless that’s what you want?