The power makes me nervous, as it’s over 100bhp faster than my 330e and even that was a lot.
A lot of people say this when they’ve never driven a car over ~350hp. It really doesn’t matter, it’s not like you’re hit with 370hp or whatever it is the moment you touch the throttle. The car can handle it fine, you won’t get that power unless you ask for it.
If you loved the 330e, you’ll absolutely LOVE the m340i. Imo the 330e drives like a wet blanket, the mixed drivetrain falls apart when you really “drive”. Once you try the 3l, you’ll never be able to look at a 2l the same way again.
I don’t think it’s about being too old to enjoy the car. It’s about possibly being old enough to afford the 5 series equivalent, which is an up-sell. He’s just a slimey salesman doing slimey salesman things.
Wouldn’t worry about it. Try both, he could be right, or he could be wrong.