I used to be a full on incel, it’s an easy hole to fall into if you hate yourself. I had to take a good look at myself and realize that I was the problem, and now I’m a far happier person

An infected ingrown toenail, probably

Eh, not necessarily. It could mean a variety of different things

I do wish they used it more effectively, but asking the government for sane spending habits isn’t gonna do much

Not nearly enough info to call it a red flag. It’s just as likely he doesn’t know / hasn’t been told that there’s a problem at all