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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • It’s my third week of summer vacation and haven’t really left the house that much other than walking the dog and some planned activities. Mostly just me and my husband together but I’m noticing I’m kinda getting fed up with just being around one person 24/7. (i love him don’t get me wrong but everything in moderation)

    I’m just finding myself more and more thinking about if I had friends who lived closer, it’d be great to just hit them up and go for a coffee or something. All of my close friends I’m comfortable asking to hang out on short notice live so far that it requires planing days, if not weeks, ahead to hang out.

    Haven’t made a single friend on my own since moving to this town 4 years ago, it’s so difficult.








  • I tend to be quiet around new people but then I feel like I’ve already “branded” myself as the quiet one and when I get comfortable enough to have a conversation, i might still not talk because now it feels like too big of a jump from not talking to talking a lot.

    Usually with alcohol I can skip the analyzing step but then there might be a point when I get overwhelmed and I’ll just zone out, as if I’m just observing the conversation like a ghost or a fly in the wall.







  • I have to admit, without this community i probably would have given up on this fediverse when i first moved from reddit few weeks ago.

    Also on another note, it’s very hard to shake off some habits from reddit. I had to really force myself to not wipe out this comment because that’s what I’m used to. And i almost wrote about sub instead of community lol