Wow, it’s worse than I thought. Let’s take stock of what you’re doing. You’re creating icons for communities that don’t have one, then imposing on them to adopt them, rather than just deal with your silly malady. Take responsibility for yourself and stop placing the onus on others.
Just totally oblivious to yourself, eh? You’re literally imposing yourself on communities, trying to persuade them to use icons, simply because you have some weird unhealthy preoccupation with it, rather than just come to terms with your odd obsession. And I’m not trying to be cruel, I’m just trying to help you see it so you can engage in self-betterment.