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No

Its simply not attractive to me, but I don’t expect everyone to be attracive to me. As long as they don’t demand that I don’t care what they do.

I’m a man, they say “She ain’t a lady unless she’s 280”.

I disagree whole heartedly, I like my women healthy, not skin and bones, but also not obese.

I mean, like anyone it depends on the person.
Who she is how she acts, just like anyone else.

I wouldn’t say your idea is any more valid than saying all men secretly want a woman that’s skinny. Or in-between.

If you’re looking for self validation, just be yourself.