The more I think on this, the more I wonder if it’s truly unpopular “here,” but it certainly is in public.
Headlights should be no more than 2 feet off the ground. Yes, your SUV will look dumb. No, you won’t be able to see as far. But you also won’t be blinding everyone.
And no, adjusting angles does not solve this for monster trucks in the US.
I always thought the main beams should be where fog lights are located on big trucks. Keep the normal looking headlights in the same place but only have the turn signals and running lights there to keep the truck normal looking.