• TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee
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          10 months ago

          stalking someone’s posts seems more like harassment than anything else. try blocking

          do you even know who you’re replying to? I have zero interest in whatever petty bullshit yall bringing from another community. I just thought they needed a reminder to log off once in a while, if this is how you’re spending your time. same to you, Mixter Step-In

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            This whole thing was started because Starmer has a hate boner for it and deleted its comment. Starmer provoked someone, so they shouldn’t be surprised when the provoked responds back.

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                Cyberbullying can’t be undone simply by “turning off your computer”. These are real people harassing other real people and profiting off of the fact they are anonymous and probably won’t be held accountable for their vileness, meanwhile the victim will just suffer and be scared to even wake up in the morning. This shit is SERIOUS, especially for those with cluster B personality disorders who are already HEAVILY stigmatized as it is. The internet is supposed to be a save haven, and the only way to maintain that is through fighting and actively pointing out toxic people such as yourself.

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                    10 months ago

                    If it’s not true, I will make it true. I will make sure it comes true, no matter what happens. The internet is a huge opportunity for those who weren’t usually represented in offline spaces to be themselves and form their own communities. The internet was always a place where barriers and prejudices shouldn’t have mattered. We need to protect that principle. And if that principle is not true or not valid, I will make it true. I will work my hardest to make it so. And nobody can stop me.

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            10 months ago

            I’m not stalking him. I’m browsing Lemmy normally and he happens to come across me very often because of all his posts. I tell him to fuck off when he runs into me. That’s not stalking.

      • Stamets@lemmy.worldOP
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        Literally no.

        That user is otherwise known as DroneRights. You can check modlogs and see that they’ve had accounts on every major instance and every account has been banned for transphobia, general bigotry, slander, and copious amounts of lying. They particularly hate me because I am both a popular poster as well as someone who specifically called out their shit and got them banned from Startrek.website. They openly admit that they have narcissistic personality disorder and are using that to both abuse other people as well as shield themselves from abuse. They are literally incapable of coping with the fact that someone has pointed out that they are a trash person and has made it their sole mission to try and slander me at every possible case.

        I banned them from 3 communities earlier today for making these exact same claims about me and providing zero evidence but these comments still exist elsewhere.

        Honestly I just keep forgetting they exist. I think they’re drastically overselling how important they think they are. Only reason I’m even aware of their existence is because they just keep copy/pasting the same argument over and over again. Literally not creative enough to come up with anything new.

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          You know that DroneRights has NPD, and you are fully aware of that fact, and you’re literally saying “ah, we banned someone for having a cluster B personality disorder. I’ma use a slur too to prove my point”. I think all you’ve said of whatever DR did to “deserve” its ban is a projection of what you did, Stamets.

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              Do you need me to doxx myself and send over my location, face, home and everything to prove I am not DroneRights? Do you need me to compare blood samples? Because I feel that simply saying the truth won’t be enough for you.

              You can’t possibly fathom that ANYONE would actually defend a narcissistic person. You can’t fathom that ANYONE would stand up against injustice besides just talking about standing up against injustice. You can’t imagine someone doing this shit out of love and care, because you have zero concern about people with NPD. As long as you will continue this dehumanizing nonsense, you never will. What do you need me to give you to prove it to you that I am not just an alt? I am my own person with my own choices who has seen this stuff and decided to jump in. Not the first time I’ve done it, not the last time I will, either. If you choose to not believe me, that’s fine. Believe what you want. But you can’t fathom that anyone else would disagree with you, would stand up against you and would point out your hypocrisy.

              Last thing: you don’t know me. You don’t know who I am, what I do, what I like, what I dislike, what I eat and drink. If you knew, you’d know I’m not an alt account.

              • Stamets@lemmy.worldOP
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                Your IP was matched to DroneRights when you were banned from another instance.

                You are a known alt account of DroneRights.

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                    I think the point of this is to bait me into doxxing myself. If we were to have the same IP, I would have got a screenshot or a link to the modlog that proves it.

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                  How was it even matched to DroneRights? Can you show me the proof it was? Could you please give everyone the damning piece of evidence that proves once and for all that I am an alt account of DroneRights. If my IP was matched to DR’s IP, then I need to see this. I am genuinely stupefied by this. Like, genuinely give me a link to the modlogs or send a screenshot, any sort of proof. I did not know my IP was matched to theirs. I know my IP should be Romanian because that’s where I am from, and indicating Bucharest because we are using a private relay on our iPhone (the iCloud+ thing).

        • 𝙲𝚑𝚊𝚒𝚛𝚖𝚊𝚗 𝙼𝚎𝚘𝚠@programming.dev
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          “Narcissist” is not a slur. Additionally, he’s calling you out for your bad behaviour and online harassment, not “because you have NPD”.

          If you have a mental disorder that prevents you from behaving nicely online, it may be wiser not to comment. Because people won’t see your NPD as an excuse, but as a justification showing that you do demonstrate bad behaviour and therefore are prone to breaking the (social) rules. Ergo justifying the ban.

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          “Narcissist is a slur!” -cried the Narcissist

          I’ve done the digging I need to to confirm to my satisfaction that you’ve at least 3 alts, all of which defend you, use it/its pronouns, and all of which claim to be the originating victim.

          Stop lying, log off

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            Wish I could say I hated them or even pitied them but frankly I don’t even think about them at all. The fact that they think about me non-stop is pretty gratifying though I guess.

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            That’s your only proof? My guy. Did you just learn yesterday that more than a single person uses it/its pronouns? Damn.