• Sequentialsilence@lemmy.world
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    11 months ago

    I feel that. It may be hard to believe but the breakup was amicable. It’s just really hard to make a 7 time zone difference work, especially almost 20 years ago when video chat was not what it is today. The few times we had together I really do cherish, but it was not the right time or place. We’re now only 1 time zone apart and haven’t seen each other since her wedding, but we do still keep up with each other periodically.

    It is possible to be happy for an ex and really wish them the best.

    • taladar@sh.itjust.works
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      11 months ago

      It is possible to be happy for an ex and really wish them the best.

      That is even possible if you have no desire to spend time with them yourself any more. Not everyone who is incompatible with you is a bad person who deserves a bad life, in fact most people are not.