• greenteadrinker@midwest.social
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    1 year ago

    I’m not European nor am I that young, but I share the same sentiment. Commuting by car isn’t good in a lot of aspects and kids are too expensive. Also having kids in this climate seems extremely stressful. Not only do you have to worry about extremely invasive tech, but you also have to worry about the changing climate and the (what seems like) global cost of living crisis

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      • 1990: “wow, the ozone layer is getting destroyed. Who knows if we might have a planet. Might be better to not have kids”
      • 1970: “wow, life is more expensive than ever and the world might end in a nuclear war. Might be better to not have kids”
      • 1950: “wow, we just got out of the war and will need to rebuild the whole continent. Might be better to not have kids”
      • 1800: “wow, I spend 15 hours a day working in a factory and I can barely sustain myself. Might be better to not have kids”.
      • 1400: “wow, I have back-breaking work in a farm and all of it goes to some king and I will never see. What is the point of this? Might be better to not have kids.”
  • chowdertailz@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I am an USA resident. Two years ago got rid of my car. Walk to work. My wife and I agreed when we first got together 8 years ago no children. Even if I wanted a car or a kid I wouldn’t be able to afford it. If I ever was able and wanted I’d adopt. I know too many people who were in and how shitty the foster system is. My aunt was a Saint and did it and actually adopted some of her fosters but the horror stories I hear.

  • Firestorm Druid@lemmy.zip
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    1 year ago

    I’ve recently started an apprenticeship in Germany, and it’s quite interesting to see how many people are super into getting children sometime down the line. I’m like, dude, we can’t guarantee a proper future for ourselves - what future is there to be had for children lol

  • Possibly linux@lemmy.zip
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    1 year ago

    We are already having fewer children. This may cause more issues as the average age of a population will skyrocket

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      1 year ago

      Better to have those issues than massive resource shortages that cause migration and war.

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          1 year ago

          Yes, they’ve already started, like in Syria, but we can and should mitigate and adapt instead of sticking our heads in the sand.