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The original was posted on /r/aitah by /u/Throwaway_Ian_ on 2023-10-06 19:36:28.

Nicole (40, F) and I (M, 40) were together for less than 2 years. She broke up with me 2.5 weeks ago. At first, she said she hated me and didn’t want to hear from me ever. I respected that and did not contact her. One night, she drunk-texted me about wasting her time and suggested getting back together. I ignored it since she was obviously drunk. Recently, she informed me that she is pregnant. I asked if the baby is mine, which made her furious. She accused me of accusing her of cheating ! . Even though she hasn’t had a doctor’s appointment yet (which I told her I wanted to attend with her) she has informed my entire family that I got her pregnant and abandoned her and the baby. My Christian mom, siblings, friends, and cousins are pressuring me to propose to her. Today, she called me three times at work, suggesting meeting over the weekend with my family for a small wedding. I lost it! I don’t even know if the baby is mine, and I won’t marry someone just because of a baby. She called me an asshole and hung up and called my family again , and my entire family is mad at me.