ive been transitioning for a while now and i still dont really feel comfortable using womens facilities. i really want to because it feels like a major milestone in my transition, but idk theres still a lot of feelings stopping me. mostly i guess im just really scared, especially with how political trans fems using womens facilities has become.
im curious, when did you finally start going in womens bathrooms and locker rooms? were you comfortable or was it scary? did it take a long time to get used to it? did you have any issues?
I’m in the middle of slowly switching over. I haven’t dared to until a couple of months ago, until a cleaner in a public toilet corrected my mistake and pointed me to the women’s facilities. Since then, depending on how the surroundings feel, I’m slowly moving over.