No I’m serious. I bought mine about a year before starting HRT. It was about 20$, not a real Hitachi one (the picture is the one I have). Even back then, it became my only way of finishing. Not because I couldn’t, back then, but because doing it the “standard way” (ew) was and still is very dysphoric for me. Also, using a wand is just affirming? It feels that way at least. It was legitimately one of the best purchases ever.

Now that I’m actually on HRT, it’s literally the only way I can finish. Doing it the other way is just dysphoric af for me and also it literally hurts, because the skin is thinner and more sensitive now. I cannot finish that way, no matter how long I try for…I just end up hurting myself, so I’ve given up on that method a looong time ago. Also, I may be wrong, but I’m at least 90% sure that the wand is one of the reasons I can have long, full-body orgasms. Vibrations feel gooood lol

I didn’t think it would work on me (pre-OP) when buying it. Well…I was pleasantly surprised 😆. I’m almost convinced that a magic wand will work well for anyone, regardless of gender identity or anatomy. I really, honestly think that.
So please…no matter if you’re a woman or a man (or NB!), cis or trans, on HRT or not, pre-OP, no-OP or post-OP…get yourself a wand. It’s the best investment I’ve ever made in my life, no joke 💜

    • Miisha ♀️@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      7 days ago

      I totally believe that. I’m planning to get a corded one in the future. No charging and it’s also cheaper than wireless.
      Mine is wireless, and the battery only lasts like two hours and I take a looooong time to finish 😭

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        7 days ago

        The detachable cord ones have a tendency for the port to break cause of the vibrations.

        Get corded. Trust me… I speak from experience.

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          6 days ago

          Huh, I have yet to run into that. I got the one with the detachable cord after my cat was about to chew on the original cord version.