While living as a man, I saw so many obviously cute cis women claim they are “not cute” with rather questionable arguments. It’s been visible that they are wrong, but at the same time they’ve truly believed that there is nothing cute about them.
So, when I now hear I am cute, I know it’s not true. But at the same time, I’m able to just outright accept the claim. Basically “I absolutely disagree, but at the same time my experience on others have been that they’re wrong in their disagreement, so statistically I am likely to be wrong as well.”
Kind of a case of “trust the specialist.” I’ve only done the Youtube academy on “Linda’s cuteness”. Based on the knowledge of having “researched the subject” there, I am not cute, but when actual specialists say something else, I trust them. They are specialists in seeing how I look in other people’s eyes, after all.
But yeah, I know and feel the sentiment in the image!
Here it helps being 40 :)
While living as a man, I saw so many obviously cute cis women claim they are “not cute” with rather questionable arguments. It’s been visible that they are wrong, but at the same time they’ve truly believed that there is nothing cute about them.
So, when I now hear I am cute, I know it’s not true. But at the same time, I’m able to just outright accept the claim. Basically “I absolutely disagree, but at the same time my experience on others have been that they’re wrong in their disagreement, so statistically I am likely to be wrong as well.”
Kind of a case of “trust the specialist.” I’ve only done the Youtube academy on “Linda’s cuteness”. Based on the knowledge of having “researched the subject” there, I am not cute, but when actual specialists say something else, I trust them. They are specialists in seeing how I look in other people’s eyes, after all.
But yeah, I know and feel the sentiment in the image!
🤯
Thanks this helped, actually, a lot
beware the “specialists”. they want to sell you something, be it makeup or clothing or sth else.
My friends and colleagues want to sell me makeup and clothing? Why?
oh i assumed you were talking about the store clerks