I felt the same way at first. Turns out that i was so disconnected from my appearance and numb to that fact that I interpreted my indifference as being okay with it. I didnt understand that what I was feeling was dysphoria until after I accepted that I was trans.

If you think youre “okay” with being a guy, ask yourself a few questions:

  1. Is it a “positive” okay, meaning you actively like being a guy? Or is it “neutral” or “negative” okay, meaning you just dont actively hate it and are being carried forward by inertia?
  2. If you could press a button and instantly beca woman in all aspects with the caveat that you cant go back, would you press it?
  • rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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    4 days ago

    IDK, having hair on my head and not in my face sounds neat, but having a uterus sounds horrible… pressing that button would be such a gamble.