My age says I’m an adult but sometimes I think other people know more about being an adult than me.

  • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    that sounds like a massive lack of self-confidence.

    none of those things are difficult. most people do them on auto pilot. you are thinking way too much.

    you also falsely assume there is a ‘correct’ way to do these things and you will do it ‘wrong’. there isn’t.

    i used to teach. biggest thing most people have to get over is their pre conception of a ‘right’ way to do things. there is only really what works for you, it only doesn’t work if you aren’t able to attain your goals.

    like i meet people who think the only ‘correct’ way to have a child to make sure that child gets into Harvard… otherwise their child will be a failure at life. those people are idiots. the kid will be perfectly fine going to a state school, and maybe even not going to college at all…