• ook@discuss.tchncs.de
    63·
    1 month ago

    Nice meme, bro.

    But can we talk about the idiotic order of responses here, this still twitter or bluesky?

    Original post in middle, reply to that at the bottom. Reply to that reply at the top, where you start reading. Wtf?

    So you are going 3 1 2, when you want to go 1 2 3…

        • Gladaed@feddit.org
          4·
          1 month ago

          I don’t know. That was a question. Yo me those posts always look like someone posting a separate screenshot.

        • kn33@lemmy.worldEnglish
          1·
          1 month ago

          I think the idea is that new posts with a picture get better engagement than replies? I don’t know if that makes it better, but at least it’s an explanation.

  • Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de
    256·
    1 month ago

    The response is easy and obvious.

    Femdom is not a real hierarchy. It is a role play. That is why there is aftercare and stuff. To separate daily life and reality from role play.

    Like there should be a safe word that ends the role play. There is no “nvm let’s not” button in a real hierarchy.

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          3·
          1 month ago

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    • LwL@lemmy.world
      5·
      1 month ago

      While yes, the key thing is that at any point either party can say “nope no longer wanna do this”, it’s still a hierarchy, but it is mutually agreed upon. (Also, in reality, the sub has the ultimate control in bdsm because of the safe word, and if they don’t something is very wrong)

      Static unchangable hierarchies are what no one enters voluntarily (at the low end that is).

      Even outside of bdsm, it can make perfect sense to establish a hierarchy for e.g. faster response times, or because one person is far more knowledgable about something. It’s just important that the people on the lower end can always end it.