• otp@sh.itjust.works
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    1 month ago

    Why is it wrong to say women, gay people, and people with disabilities are good?

    In media, there are villains who are women, gay, or who have disabilities, so it’s not like they’re exclusively “good guys”…

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      1 month ago

      …as a lazy and simple answer, so you can put the blame for society’s problems on other people, and take no responsibility for learning and growing as people yourselves?

      It’s bad because, exactly as you have displayed, people will hyper focus on trigger words, while ignoring everything else that gets said.

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        1 month ago

        Ok, but your original comment was pretty much a non-sequitor.

        Saying that it’s bad to say that those groups of people are bad doesn’t mean that anyone is saying that those groups of people are good as a simple answer. But frankly, saying those groups are good is probably a better answer than saying they’re bad.

        We have homophobes, misogynists, and ableists, so there are definitely people who explicitly think those groups are bad.

        Meanwhile, the people advocating for the rights of those groups are not saying that all people in those groups are virtuous and can do no wrong… they’re advocating for equal rights and opportunities.

        Besides. I’m fine with “women are good” being the starting point rather than “women are bad”…lol

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          It’s only a non-sequitur if you hyperfixate on the part inside quotes while ignoring the central thrust: That attempting to reduce large populations down to simple catch phrases will never end well in the long run. Too many people argue fervently over how we should label broad segments of society, to the point that they attack anyone suggesting that they shouldn’t be doing that by assuming those people must just want the opposite, but equally reductive, perspective to be true.

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            As I recall, the comment you replied to said that we shouldn’t label broad segments of the population in a certain way. Then you said we shouldn’t label broad segments of the population in a different way.

            As I mentioned, homophobia, misogyny, and ableism are all well-documented phenomenon. The original comment suggested those things are bad. Since they involve labeling broad strokes of the population as bad (specifically, gay people, women, and people with disabilities), I take it you’re opposed to those things?