I don’t think I’ve spoken to a woman on Tinder who is actually interested in dating. The majority of them don’t ever reply, the few that do put zero effort into the conversation and often just want money. Once in a while a woman agrees to meet then just doesn’t. What the actual fuck? How do you guys handle this bullshit?

Before I get called an incel 1000 times, I am already doing everything right. I’m in therapy, I exercise every day, I eat healthy, I have diverse interests and several friends. I have paid people to review my profile and conversations and everyone agrees I am doing everything right.

  • mark@programming.dev
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    11 months ago

    Well said! I was going to pop my head in here to say something similar to the “low effort, low result” idea. I think that’s primarily the problem. Meeting people with substance isn’t just a swipe away, but most people on those apps think it is.