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  • Admin hat on here.

    You need to be very careful about how you phrase topics like this. It’s ok to express your opinion. It’s ok to say that surgery is not for you and to be open about why.

    What’s not ok is telling people that surgery, or any other aspect of folk living life authentically on their own terms isn’t isn’t for them either.

    You can talk about your own experiences and perspectives, but don’t push them on to others



  • It actually set me back quite a bit for a while. I’d lived my life telling myself that I could do the things i struggled to do if i was serious about it. My diagnosis forced me to accept that I couldn’t do the things though, and no amount of 'getting serious " would make my ADHD go away. And so, for the first time in my life, I felt broken, like there was an inherent fault with me that could never be solved or fixed. I got through that eventually, but it was really rough for a while, precisely because it forced me to be aware of something I’d been actively avoiding being aware of…


  • tl;dr - This term that folk use to talk about their experience in a way that prioritises lived experience over medicalisation is problematic because it doesn’t talk about their experiences through the lens of medicalisation

    I was diagnosed in my 30s, after my kid got diagnosed. I didn’t magically become neurodiverse when I got a diagnosis, and it didn’t change my life in any meaningful way, yet the authors of that article would claim that there is some fundamental difference between the version of me that didn’t have a diagnosis and the version of me that does









  • It’s a consequence of the eBay vs Newmark ruling. Arguments against it are theoretical only and haven’t been tested, and would be next to impossible to achieve with extant companies that don’t already have advertised social priorities.

    let’s be honest if it’s simply self preservation rather than some oft-cited but wrong assertion of the law.

    For the purposes of my point in this discussion, the distinction doesn’t matter. Whether the pressure to maximise profit over morality is a legal requirement or self preservation, the end result is inherent immorality